Can you just close your ears to what people say? No! never.
The fact is don’t let people’s comment get to you so much that you lose yourself to them. Walk and deal with their ideas and opinions, but when it gets too hard or tough to follow or deal with just discard them and do it your own way (the way you feel it’s right).
You always know the right thing to do and how pleasing it would turn out, you just find it hard to realize it on your own, that is why you call for help and they sometimes not turn out the way you expect them to. “It’s nice”, “it’s fake”, “it’s healthy”, “it’s delicious”, “it’s awesome”, these are the soothing words you expect and the truth you believe people should always share with you, but that’s a big fat lie. They will only say these words to make you feel important whereas they don’t mean it. When they don’t use these words they say things that make you just want to give up. But you know what? “You can only keep going if you’re sure of the path”. This simply means when you’re sure of what you want/need and understand the concept of people to the extent at which they won’t hurt you, then you get going as well as you want with a good sense of humor and not be affected by their words.
You should also learn to compliment others, open your eyes wide to see the good in others, and learn to wish them well. Imbibe the habit of telling people “IT IS WELL” even if it seems the opposite. You don’t have to be a motivator. Just be sure you’re not blind to see them succeed. This is a manner/habit/attitude everyone should possess because ranting about what people did wrong all the time or their mistakes is not the solution to their problems, the unhelping rumor is only an additional problem.
Do you realize most times you kill people with that single word/statement/sentence/quote (out of place quotes)/insults in disguise? If the best words to use (mostly in cases you’re not sure of the situation at hand or do not have an experience or knowledge about it) are not available then just ‘WAKA’ PASS – walk away gently. It’s not hard yet it saves you from hurting someone and killing/devouring your conscience.
Why hold grudges against people who have not offended you? This type of feeling is the beginning of being satanic and evil. Whenever such feeling show their faces get rid of them and embrace love, peace, patience, mercy, kindness, goodness with yourself and with such people.
- OPEN YOUR EYES TO SEE THE GOOD IN OTHERS.
- DON’T BE CARRIED AWAY BY RUMORS THAT YOU AIN’T GOOD ENOUGH, YOU’RE THE BEST OF YOUR KIND.
- EVERYONE IS BORN SPECIAL, STOP KILLING SELF ESTEEM.